True that in-laws shouldn't matter. But when the wife of sibling has attacked me left and right, is there anything that I can do? She even told me last year that my sibling would prefer that I do everything. But he is POA. Doesn't go over to see my mom as much as I do. I take care of her meds, taking her to the doctor's appointments and call and check on her at memory care. She has been there for about 3 months and has had maybe a couple of minor upset moments. But that's all. My mom still has her sanity about her and understands everything that is said to her. Due to her age, 88, she has been through a lot in the past year. Moving 2 times. Sold her house in one day and didn't expect it to sell that fast. My sibling helped her move both times but I helped more the first time because my mom was doing okay. Just needed to be with her. My brother even threatened me with a restraining order. Never followed through. If he is her POA, then he needs to take more responsibility for her and not to pass it off on me. He needs to learn how to do more things.
For those who understand teachers and contracts, can't he do a FMLA for his mom when he needs to take off for certain appointments?