I lost my mom 22 years ago (age 49), my younger brother two years ago (age 39) and now my dad this past September (age 76). My mother in law has for years made comments about not socializing with widows anytime I mentioned my dad. Now that he passed away her first comment was to ask if I would take the kids out of school to attend the funeral out of state. Has since remarked about the wonderful summer she had with my kids while I was out of State taking care of my ill dad. (she happened to be visiting us over the summer while my dad was sick). Has asked me if I am over it and to move on. Has asked me how he died and says she can imagine how it happened. It's been one insensitive comment after the other. How do I handle it? When my brother passed away she called my husband asking for him to come visit her as he and my brother were not close so it didn't matter that he be with me during this period. Meanwhile my husband gave the eulogy at my brothers funeral and they were close. Not sure how to handle her. Been avoiding speaking to her because she acts like she has no clue how rude she is even though my husband has tried to explain it to her. Thank you for your input!