My grandma has dementia and I've recently learned I guess the best way is to 'just go with it' or 'change the topic' which I have tried just going along. However, what my gm has isn't just that. She blames me for everything, accuses me, constantly says 'get me ×' when you go in wherever or get up, just straight mean to me. If we go to a store or somewhere she expects me to do everything for her, remember everything on her list for her, pick up stuff. I had been going to her house everyday on a exact schedule for years, then I graduated High school and my granddaddy got sick, I went over everyday as always but would also willingly do other things like sure with him while my grandma basically lived her life because we are supposed to do this stuff for her apparently. He's gone now and for the last couple years my grandma has gotten progressively meaner to me and now has spread to treating others like it. So now I've just finally stopped going to her house altogether except to take her mail and if she goes somewhere and hope she's not mean to me. I am 25 and I want to help, I had no problem when it was my granddaddy, but I just can't take this anymore. I live with my parents, I can't drive due to seizures. However, despite various things, I don't think my mother really believes her mother is treating me this way and goes straight to the were you yelling or something similar so I don't really feel I have her support because she just says that oh she's just getting old when we all know it's dementia as well as just my grandmother's character of caring only for herself. Any words of advice?