She has always been narcissistic, but the moods are getting uncontrollable. One minute she will be civil, I turn around, she's screaming that no one helps her, her granddaughter steals jewelry, tells me (I am a 55 year old Accountant, her sole caregiver) that I am "retarded." It gets uglier everyday. My neighbors think she is a sweet southern belle, she's always been an actress. Her doctors won't give her anxiety meds because she only behaves like this around me. It's to the point where I am afraid to interact with her at all. My other relatives just stay away from her. Ideas?