MY MOM lives with us now. My mom (89) went from independent living to suddenly requiring 24/7 supervision with assistance as needed within past 4 months following a series of strokes. No other financial alternative. She's depressed, irritable and occasionally mean. Mostly cognitive. Mobility and self-care problems. Not happy living with us and demanding as all get out! Treats everyone like a slave (not new behavior). Seems do anything to be admitted to a hospital. Even had a suicide plan. Back in rehab now and on antidepressant. Won't talk about coming home though, but annual coverage for inpatient rehab running out. I'm still unpacking and rearranging our house as the move happened on short notice. I have a great husband who's rolling with this (mostly) and 3 boys - 18 (in the house, not thrilled with negative grandma), 23 (college senior out of state) and 21 (Married, duty station Alaska, whom we have planned to visit end of this year). To sum up my life right now: I can't find any clean undies for myself, and I can't remember the last time I had a shower. Jesus, take the wheel because I don't know what I'm doing anymore. Every day's plans go ary and I feel like I get hit with a 2×4 to the back of the head often.