She has diabetes & has been growing blind & macular degeneration. She lives in Florida in her condo I live in Massachusetts and we speak daily on the phone but she's always in a crisis because my Father has Dementia. I usually get drunk in order to drown out my emotion. Can you tell me the best method of speaking to her and not getting in arguments over her problem? I am her only son my sister lives near her but wants nothing to do with her and her aging problem.