I'm having a very difficult time with not letting her upset me. I'm my mothers caregiver and she doesn't realize she is having memory problems and now believes she can live on her on. I quit my job and move in with her so she could come home from assisted living, which is what she told me she had to have someone 24/7 last may. I offered to do move home so she could. Now she thinks I had to move for her help, she is thinking I'm using her, she had said everything possible to get me to leave, telling lies to family, friends and neighbors, doctors and nurses. Thank god the immediate family and nurses and drs know the truth and are giving me support for the job I'm doing. But she has nothing to say to say to me but complaining, I try to ignore it but it is getting harder and harder to ignore.