My grandmother moved in with a person who takes care of the elderly in her own home. I don't know how much to pay her, we've been giving her $1700/month plus some medication and special diet re-imbursement. She says she is being drastically underpaid, and is demanding that her brother (who lives in my Grandmother's house) be allowed to live rent free with all bills paid. That seems like too much. They live in New Hampshire. Does anyone know what a person who does this should actually be getting paid??