My friend from church , needed a home, so about 6 months after my husband passed away, I invited her to live with me. Rhonda has MS and dementia. Her condition deteriorated very quickly. After a year and a half, she had been in hospital 7 times. I knew it was more than I could manage at my home. After lots of good advice from this site, I was able to get her into a nursing home. The problem is , she is furious with me. I get calls from her demanding to come back to my home. She is also hard to manage at the NH. She is in a Behavioral Rehab now , as she is suicidal. I am torn -- every time I talk to her , I am an emotional wreck. She does not have any family that will help out. Would it be cruel to limit contact and conversations ? There is absolutely no way , I will take her out of the NH.