I care for my 92 yr old mom and 94 yr old dad with dementia at my home. I do this because my brother is dead and his 3 kids need money to pay for their college. Mom and Dad had committed to doing this, so I send them money for tuition. If I put mom and dad into a nursing home, it would eat up their savings and the kids would get nothing. How many of you are in the same position, caring for an elder person with dementia at home in order to stretch out their savings so that grandchildren can be provided for?