The elderly parent is in skilled nursing - possibly MIS- DiAGNOSED with dementia (Ativan allergy) but the POA is not very pro-active on his mom's behalf. Refuses to transfer POA to his sibling and also refuses to allow his sibling to re-locate his mom to another state where the other sibling can stay on top of things. The parent is being over-sedated and really not getting the care she deserves. Lots of negligence - but everyone passes the buck. We are very worried that if something doesn't change, she will die before her time.