So many of you already know the crazy drama filled life I led due to the exes crazy mother. I stopped by the house to pick up more things and its a mess. As much as I do not like the woman, I feel bad. She has not has her medications in 4 days and her children cant figure out how to get them refilled since they forgot to ask during her doctor appointment and never put themselves on HIPPA forms. She also has another uti but they never called to get test results. I told her she needed to call the doctor to get antobiotics. She called and the medical assistant said the doctor hadnt looked at results and was out of office but she needed to call back Monday to get directions about if she was going to need oral or iv antibiotics. So I talked to my ex about taking responsibility of situations. He told me his brother was taking charge and to let him screw up. I told him he was an idiot since he lived in same house, he was responsible. He disagreed because some doctor actually declared her competent and he said it was on her and the brother. Ive been struggling with this since yesterday. I know the family needs to step up to plate and I dont want to get into the family politics but my conscience is telling me to fix it because I would feel guilt if something happened to her that I could have prevented. APS is not an option due to the fact the agent looking in on her is close friends with DIL. Any siggestions on what I should do?