Me MIL went into palliative care this morning after eating and drinking very little the past two days. She is refusing food and water by mouth and they are not giving anything by IV other than some pain meds. They have stopped her blood pressure meds, coumadin, chemo meds for MM. How many days do you think she can survive like this?? It is excruciating to watch just a couple of hours! She has advanced dementia just since waking up this morning. Only yesterday it was just severe short term memory loss from the myeloma. Thank God though she doesn't seem to realize what is happening.