We've been coasting along and taking it one issue at a time, coming up with solutions, tolerating annoying behavior...but today...yes, the sh*t nearly hit the proverbial fan, or I should say floor, pants, and nightgown. She is a mess. It was down both her legs and she was nasty and uncooperative. Calls in to a nurse who felt I did the best I could and suggested connecting with the neurologist as this is crossing a bit of a line. 911 would be traumatic; home care needs an MD referral and I have a call and email in to the family medicine doc. We tried to get her in the shower but she balked, and ultimately since much of the stench was coming from a nightgown...I got a blunt nosed scissors and cut it off her. And then she just got her snotty self dressed and went downstairs to sit on the sofa and read. There is no one else to help family wise. Has anyone dealt with this??