Sibling has been diagnosed MCI, but he has gotten worse, but he is still cognitive of events surrounding him. He is only 62 so this is early onset (about 4-5 years now). I have to leave the state for my job. (I have delayed it twice now, can't do it again). He refuses to hire outside help to do anything and says he is ok and can still do everything, but he can't. I do not have POA and since I will not be here to see how he is doing, I think it is a liability to me and my family to have it and there is no one else available to do it. I have thought perhaps I should just contact adult services and tell them he is at risk? He is narcissistic and super negative, always has been. Has anyone else done that? Can you tell me what were your experiences were? Did they actually do anything? Are there other options? How do you walk away?