My dad’s been in a care home since Sept 2018. He has no mobility from chronic myopathy. When I asked my siblings to help find a place as he needed 24hr care everyone left it up to me. I found a clean place he can afford with only 6 clients so he gets the care and attention. My dad is being taken care of and he’s happy. To me, that’s what matters. My SIL claims she would have taken him in and cared for him. My dad doesn’t care for her so that would not work. She’s always trying to stir things up in our family and I’m getting sick of it. My brother never says anything.