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I am looking for someone long-term to provide weekly rides, companionship, and a few errands. It'll wind up being about 10 hours a week. The local eldercare program provided a list of people and emails.


Is there a template for a contract, taxes, and payment? I have never hired someone. Would it be better to go through an agency?


Thank you

kenmtb: Prayers forthcoming.
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Good answers from our readers to handle payments.,You mentioned that your mother lives with dementia/Alzheimer’s. Mom is no loner safe living alone and should be placed into a memory care facility where there is 24/7 help.
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Where are you located at.
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Local to your mother hospice agencies often have lists of private caregivers that you can hire. They also have the local agency names. Any word of mouth referrals are also good. We found an excellent caregiver through the local hospice list. We were not on hospice, just asked the major provider in this market if they had a list of caregivers. They did. You have to call and interview and meet them in person. She is experienced, excellent and close by. Or go the agency route. Payment is between you and the private caregiver. Your mother’s CPA may be of assistance.
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K. Gabriel Heiser, an attorney has provided a sample (PDF format) in his article
on this forum:
"Personal Care Agreements: A Must for Caregiver Compensation and Medicaid Planning"
K. Gabriel Heiser,  Medicaid Secrets

Search in the magnifying glass icon at the top of the page.
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kenmtb Jun 9, 2025
Thank you for the article. I am inquiring about having my mom's tax/accounting people handle payroll tax. I will look into having an attorney educate me on things like insurance, liability and other details. Hopefully I can find a private person who does not have all of the stipulations that the agencies have.
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Thank you for the help again.

Just so I understand, to be legal, If I used a private individual to transport my mom and stay with her a few hours, I would have to become their employer?

I am hesitant to talk to attorneys as they have been little assistance outside of what I can find in forums and they are hard to get ahold of. I am still hounding the last one so I can pay them.
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Slartibartfast Jun 12, 2025
There’s a threshold for annual income to be taxable, but it’s very low. Google search says under $400 a year. Its meant so 13 year old babysitters don’t have to hire an accountant.
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Ken, I am so sorry. When I wrote my reply I thought you were a new person.

The whole reason to have taxes taken out is for Medicaid. They may ask why a certain amount of money is taken out on a weekly basis from Moms money. If its found its someone you hired, taxes should have been taken out. You need to prove the expense.

Are you going to pay this person? If you are paying, I would just hire someone to do what you discribe. For 10 hours a week, I would not go to the trouble paying someone to do payroll. I would not pay more than $20 and hour for what you are looking for.
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Ken, being you are long distance, it might benefit you to get an attorney involved in the contract and have a payroll service do the payments.

Depending on how the person is licensed or not is how you would handle payments and taxes. A good attorney can guide you through the best way in no time, maybe an hour, that moms money pays for.

Best of luck finding someone that you can use and works well with your mom.
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Most agencies, I think, are going to have a minimum. And of course the hourly feel will likely be around 40.00 or more. You are paying both caregiver and agency. The usual minimum is about four hours a day three times a week. Call around and explore, Ken. It would surely be easier in terms of filing paperwork and paying, keeping records and so on.
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Sorry I was not looking for a person to employ, rather what paperwork needs to be done.
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Igloocar Jun 10, 2025
The issues with taxes, etc., do not occur if you use an agency. The agency is the employer of the aides. As others have mentioned, there is usually a minimum in terms of consecutive hours of employment--often 4 hr.

When you hire an individual privately, you become that person's employer. Unless it is a very small number of hours (have forgotten the number), you are required to withhold for the usual things for which an employer withholds: federal and state taxes, workers' comp, unemployment, and possibly local income taxes. You do not need an attorney for this; rather an accountant. The issue is NOT Medicaid, as one reply suggested, but rather your being an employer of someone who has been decided legally to be a household/domestic employee, NOT an independent contractor.

When you use an agency, you are not required to continue to use an employee with whom you are unhappy; the agency will try to match you as well as they can. While you pay more hourly, you are not going through the hassles of withholding, possibly requiring the use of an accountant, at a charge.. Also, some individuals will refuse to work for you if you are doing things legally, because they are trying to shield their income from taxation. I would strongly advise starting with an agency.

I) might add that it is almost always a mistake to pay for a parent's care from your own money--that is a topic for another conversation.
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Sorry, this is not an employment site. Itsca forum of Caregivers from all over the US and other countries.

You will need to check agencies where you live. Try care.com and nextdoor.com.
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