Or no weekends, will leave whenever she feels like? I've been asked by my sister (who has not been around for 2 years) to make a schedule. She tells me my way of caring for our mother is a circus. I have been the primary caregiver of my mother for the past 2 years. My mother has been doing well except for set backs here and there. Since my sister has come around again she is demanding "MY" schedule. I feel as the main caretaker I don't have one. I'm on call 24hrs. Everything falls on me. I have to make sure there is always care for our mother regardless who can be there and who can't. I don't see my mother as an 8-5 job as my sister does. I can't clock out and forget about her. Basically, when my sister is not caring for her she does not want to be bothered. So what kind of "schedule" could I possibly give my sister who already said, She can't do overnights, maybe she can do a weekend, and cuts out early whenever she is with our mother? Am I missing somehthing? Can the primary caretaker be on a schedule? If it's possible I would love to work something out. I just don't see it happening. The last thing I want to do is argue and fight with my siblings who are now willing to help me. I need all the help I can get.