I am the caregiver for my disabled brother. he has been dx with neurosarcoid. he is bedridden/ feeding tube. feeling overwhelmed. Any advice? He has had several stokes/ several surgeries . I do use a lit to get him up out of bed. but we have to do everything for him. we meaning my family my dad/brother sit with him during daytime. my husband and I in the evenings. it is starting to feel like too much. I work full time and have children.