Sibling and husband are alcoholics who traveled from Colorado to northern mn without any money... maxed out credit cards... and no jobs or no place to live. They complain to mom about having no money for food... and professional they want to take care of her. Which would mean just the opposite... she would be shelling out to them. They have no stability in their backgrounds and are looking to her to foot any needs she can give them. How can the current caregiver protect the aging ill? Parent.