Hi, I need some advice. I love my mom dearly. I have been taking care of her every need for the last 8 years. It's always been her & I until these lsat 2 years (we now live my my fiancée and his son). She has lost a lot more independence during this time, but I still do a great job with her; I work from home, I change her, feed her, hang out with her, etc.... Her passive aggressive comments are really getting to me. She even now rolls her eyes at me when we go out for an hour or so. Even tonight when it's a wedding errand. She says I should make plans around when my sister can come watch her (which is never by the way). I told her I thought it was unfair, our entire lives revolve around her. It's always the same reaction from her .... "go some other time" "is it that important" "what if the house catches on fire," etc... I just don't know how not to let her guilt trip effect me when I walk out the door because I end up having a miserable time when I leave OR rush to get home, which is really not good for my relationship. Are there any magic words I can say to her to make her more grateful for what I do and act and less entitled to my every moment?