We live in PA and are having a very difficult time with this. We have been looking for the past 6 months and keep coming up with one road block after another. We reached the point that she can no longer stay with us since she is always nasty to the grandchildren to the point where they hate to even ask their friends to come over to their house and when she isn't nasty to them she is nasty to us. I sort of get the previous post about entitlement and while I sort of get it she is just way too demanding. Of course she is of no help since she doesn't feel the need to leave our home but it is reaching the point where either she goes or my hubby goes!!