My mom has lived with my husband, my two children, and myself for the last 6 years. My mom’s health has improved quite a bit than when she first moved in with us. However, she still cannot see to drive. We would like to build a house with an apartment in the shop next door so she can have her own space and us ours. If she contributes to the construction of just her apartment, then I have siblings who think her using her money is coming out of the their “inheritance” or that she is giving me money. These siblings have some addiction issues and do not help with anything with her care. I don’t care about any inheritance but I just want her given a place to live and be cared for without hurting my own family financially. Anyone been in a similar situation that has any wisdom?