Should she continue living at the assisted living or bring her home? Their is an emotional tie, feeling guilty,but at the same time she has become very difficult. She is unhappy where she is at , she was unhappy with me , with my brother, with my friend. She is upset at the world, grand children, great grandchildren. People upset her, noise upsets her and is extremely inpatient. Does not want to do anything. I don’t want to draw my mother as an ogre, but at times it seems that way. For me it is a difficult decision.