I'm at the point where I feel fear, panic and anxiety whenever my phone rings. Of course when the group home calls it is never a good thing. They called in September that my Dad was not feeling well and needed to go to the ER. Turned out he had a UTI. This past weekend they called to say he fell, but nothing was broken, and he seemed under the weather. Or when my Dad calls its never to just say hello, he always wants something. How do you guys deal with it?