My Mom has 6 sisters, all younger than her. Every time they come and visit its a million questions and suggestions....why is she like this, what if she has abcd disease? "Take care of her I know this is hard, but she will not be here one day." You don't know its hard because you're not here everyday!
One aunt who was willing to watch her so I could get away, backed out on me that same week.
They always pop up instead of calling so I could at least take a walk.
They are useless and make me feel like I am little kid getting lectured.
I know the answer is to probably just ignore them and try not to engage in conversation, and I will try!