My mother-in-law had a stroke in February and is unable to care for herself. She has been in and out of the hospital and several facilities - mostly due to her own behavior and low income/no savings. She is unhappy wherever she is and complains constantly about everything. Nothing is ever good enough. I have busted my butt to find her places to go and take care of her but she treats me like I'm not doing anything and have abandoned her and left her to die. She expects everyone to drop everything and be at her back and call. When she doesn't get what she wants she starts to cry and accuses everyone of not caring, not loving her, and generally being horrible people. I am at a point (and everyone else in her family has been at this point for a long time) where I am ready to give up and not deal with her at all. This is negatively impacting my health due to all the stress she is causing me. I am at a total loss as to what to do. There is no where else for her to go at this point.
