What I think doesn’t really matter, it is up to the sons. But I am back up POA but it’s their father. His friends think he should try to go home and have someone come in every other day and then the family (me and my husband) yeah they would help they don’t realize how bad it is. He forgot to eat for 5 days but they think if they or we come in for a couple hours it’s all taken care of. What about the other 22 hours? They are making me feel like I am being mean and not making the boys do what they want. I feel that they are making judgments.