My mom has been living in assisted living for nearly 2 years. She had a stroke three years ago, and has more confusion then memory issues at this particular time. Still it's home to her.
She cannot function in the assisted-living environment any longer without 24 hour help. I need to move her to memory care because I cannot pay for assisted-living + a 24 hour companion. It's. way too expensive.
The memory care facility is across the parking lot, and there are people there that she does know who have transition from one location to the other. She is totally freaked out about even visiting the facility, and she's heard many negative things from residents.
We are moving this week. I may have to drop her off and let them deal with it. Any suggestions? Mom is beyond understanding anything. I feel so guilty!