Great grandma is 88, has a little dog she forgets about, forgets to cook, get very angry for no reason, I've been living with her, but she refuses to let me help, Its all I want to do. Grandma took her car away since she had been driving without a license. Both a home health nurse and social worker agree she should go into a home. But, she DOES NOT want to go. How do we make it work? She refuses help, our last option is a nursing home. How do we get her there?