In the past my grandma that is living with dementia (somewhere around stage 4 & 5) has accused my mom of writing checks in her name, which she eventually denied. She has a hard time organizing and often misplaces her belongings. We’ve tried to help her bring some order to her room but being untrusting of us, it hasn’t been successful. She was carrying 8k in her purse inside of a ziploc bag!! So my mom helped her clean out her purse that she clings to for dear life. But she cannot find her wallet which has important things like her ID and insurance card. My mom wants to help her find it but if my mom does, she fears she will believe she had it the whole time. How can we help her? Should we just let her find it amongst her things?