We do our best to be with her just because but seems her biggest concern is getting her smoke. She is getting angry with all of us. Would like to put the patch on her but struggle with taking away even one more thing. Anyone deal with this situation? I hate seeing her so unhappy, She blames us for putting her in the nursing home even though she cannot take care of herself and is dealing with stage 4 lung cancer. Thinking of putting the patch on her but know she will not agree. Do we just let her remain angry with us until she leaves us? We asked about vapor cigs but were told this was not an option. Any ideas?