He has been in the hospital in CA for over a month and we were finally contacted a week ago. We can move him to a care facility and VA will cover it. Our problem is once we check him out of the hospital, if he refuses to go with us, we have no legal right to force him to go. We live in ID and would like to have him closer to see his care is good and provide for his wants as well as his needs. CA will not recognize a guardianship from ID and Id will not from CA. Our attorney sats even with a guardianship from CA, legally we could not force him to accompany us once we walk out the front door of the hospital. We would rather not see him made a ward of the state. Any suggestions?