They are in assisted living but able to pay for extra cares dressing and bathing and meds.. My sister is constantly being called for issues and says they have to call her but she complains about how exhausted she is. The rest of us dont know what to do. Two of us live over an hour away and the other two are closer. She and her husband have been handling all issues with our folks for years. My parents have her on speed dial on their apartment phone. I don't know how to help anymore.