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My sister is just a problem but has never helped with my mother at all but she comes around to start problems for no reason. Now we’re going to court. After this how do I get her to just stop acting crazy with me? She keeps lying on me and everything that’s why I’m more then willing to go to court. How do I get her to stop? She won’t even come see if my mom needs a glass a water tho.

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Quabby sorry some time has passed since you answered. My father has flourished in the care facility I have not seen him this happy for many many years. When he went in we all thought he’d pass away quickly now thanks to the great help he is getting I hope we have him for years to come. So yes it was the best answer for him. Hope things going ok for you?
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Quabby, been there. I too was ready to go to court. When APS showed up one day, I knew it was time for an attorney. Twisted sissies had accused me of, well you name it. Guardian and conservator were assigned to watch over me making sure mom was receiving appropriate care and her money wasn't disappearing. I welcomed that part. Still with good reports on care and no money missing, twisteds did not believe the pros assigned by the court.

Best wishes to you, it is a long ugly road.
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Quabby Jun 2019
Yes it is so aggravating. I never went for conservator or anything just guardianship because the Doctors advised it. I knew nothing about this part only caring for my mom. I just pray the judge understand I have been the only one taking care of my mom for years. I don’t even understand why the first thing she’s willing to do is this but I had to make her take me to court. I need her to stop harassing me I think.
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Why ate you going to court?
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I really feel for you. You hold your head high and know that you are there for your mother. By the sounds of it this is her doing this not you. Hold you head high and know you doing the right thing by your mum.
I have a brother that is fixing for an argument. He was living with dad for a scarily minimum rent (brother is 61) and now thinks he's hard done by as he has to go out on his own. I feel for him, it was his home, but we need to sell the house to keep dad happy and pay the accommodation bond for the nursing home and he has options. He just been a bit spoiled. I pray it never explodes for us.
Thinking of you take care
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Quabby May 2019
Thank you Kemahe for your kind words. Not meaning to offend you by asking is a nursing home the only alternative
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