I live at home with my parents and my aging grandmother. My mom has severe arthritis and needs a double knee replacement. My younger sister is away at school. My dad works long hours. My mom runs the household... with my help. At 23, almost 24, I want my own life. I want to go out and not feel guilty that I'm not unloading groceries, or spending my only day off a week at home with my grandmother while she watches daytime TV. I was raised that family comes first, always, and I love my family. But I want to know how to take time for me.. without feeling guilty about it. I want to know how to spend a day relaxing with my boyfriend of three years without feeling as thought there is something I should be doing at home for the two women who taught me how to be a woman, and raised me to be the woman I am. Help me regain some of that twenty-something freedom I'm dying for... guilt free.