I keep reading comments about how y'all "placed" your loved ones in a home. How? I have been told by multiple homes that I can't place MIL in one without her consent or without guardianship. She can't continue to live with my kids since her behavior is so toxic. But we can't kick her out, either (morally or legally). We started exploring putting her into memory care, but she REFUSES to go; except in the middle of one of her tantrums, where she tries to run away, throws things and says she wants to leave and she hates it here. As soon as we tell her she can go to a home, she breaks down and says she won't go. Every facility I've called has said they won't take her without consent unless we have guardianship. I need a step by step guide or something, cause I am just not getting this!