My brother has power of attorney for my mother who has dementia. He takes care of her at home but refuses to share any information about her care. I do not know how he is paying for her care and maintaining her house since he does not work. He refuses to show me a copy of her will where he is named power of attorney. All he says is everything is being taken care of. In addition he is dating a woman with 4 children who is preparing to also move in the house and move our mother to the finished basement. This seems like elder abuse and I do not know where to turn as I cannot afford to hire an attorney to assist me. I appreciate any suggestions that are in the forum.