The house was put in our name some fifty yrs ago...and simultaneously my caretaker brother died at 69 years old with my Father next to him suffering from all the ALS with Dementia. He had to be admitted to NH. Dad had A & A with the Veterans for three years and it helped out my brother tremendously. Dad being 98yrs. Will I, daughter, be responsible for dads NH bills and should I just keep him home as the Aid and Attendance is ongoing unless I go with Medicaid, if approved. Which frankly seems like it's not free and your home could be at risk.