I have read the forum on applying for Medicaid for elderly parent. My dad broke his femur over a month ago. He was placed in rehab, then released because he refused treatment and sent home. Dad is no longer in his mind. We sent him back to the hospital for we could get him up and moved out of the chair and though he is no longer there in his mind he is a very difficult man.
I have started the process of collecting all their information. My mother has complained at how dad keeps statements and what not so good thing he did that. Have to make sure she doesn't throw the out.
Their elder lawyer is not open due to the pandemic and have not set a date to reopen. Yes, I am the POA and have those documents. I have called their lawyer and she never called back. She has the message on her answering machine that they aren't open.
My dad can't come home. How do I keep someplace safe while I do the leg work with my mother to gather this? Note: my mother has some form of dementia too and it's not easy to get information from her, especially when dad paid all the bills and took care of everything important and left her out of the loop.
I'm about ready to scream for help for all this is giving me a headache. Siblings live out of state.
Lots of advice would be greatly appreciated to get through this.
Financial Advisor has been contacted so he's working on it. Now I have to go rummaging through their home to find any and all paperwork.
Thank you for anything and much needed support.
Where I live rehab is in the same building as the Longterm care. So easy transition from rehab to LTC. Let him go to rehab again. You do not need a lawyer to get the ball rolling. Call Medicaid and ask if they are allowing appts. If so, talk to a caseworker. You will need to know how your parents stand financially. Social Security and any pensions are monthly incomes. Your problem will be if that income goes over the cap Medicaid allows. So have that proof with you. The house is an exempt asset and so is a car. But questions maybe made concerning their value. Take everything you can to the appt. Statements for savings too. Any CDs and retirement accts. There are somethings that may be exempt like retirement accts. I would not be confident in using a Social worker (unless knows Medicaid law) to answer questions concerning Medicaid especially when a spouse is involved. If they do help with an application, then I would be very involved. In my State you are only allowed 90 days to spend down, get info needed to the caseworker and get the person placed.
I am surprised a Law Office is still closed. Since yours seems to be, you may need to find another elder lawyer. Because you will need one if Dad goes over the income cap allowed by Medicaid. Some States allow Miller trusts. The extra money Dad gets will be deposited into the Miller trust and when he passes, it reverts back to Medicaid. If your parents have assets that exceed the asset level set by the state (normally 2k but each state is different) these assets need to be split between your parents. Dads split going towards his care and when spent down, you apply for Medicaid. Mom becomes the Community Spouse. She remains in the home and gets enough or all of the monthly income to live on.
With my Mom, she had 20k in assets and was under the income cap. I started the Medicaid application in April, she was placed May 1st and privately paid for May and June. I confirmed in June that Moms assets were spent down and the caseworker had all the paperwork needed and Medicaid started July 1st.
This all seems overwhelming but take it a step at a time. It will all fall into place. As POA I was able to go to the bank and have them print out every acct Mom had with that bank. I found besides her checking account she had 4 CDs that totaled 48k. She was living off $1700 a month 5 yrs ago.
I hope I have helped and not confused u more.
Speak up to the hospital social worker. Point out Mom cannot be the discharge plan. That another discharge location is needed.
If you are the primary contact - good. If it is Mom, be alert.
It only takes one call from a pushy hospital staffer to advise that Dad will be sent home & unless Mom is VERY firm with her refusal he may be delivered home.