My sister in law has full power if attorney both medically and financially. My husband has kinda checked out on his dad’s care and the decisions he should be helping with.
My father-in-law continues to say he wants to stay home and my brother in law lives with his parents to help them. Their daughter wants to put both her parents in a home...but has made plans for her mom to be in a little apartment and Dad to be in memory care.
Dad is not that bad, has one son who is willing to continue to live with him, and has verbally said he wants to stay home. Dad refuses to have anyone help with his toe nails and bathing. His son doesn’t want to fight with dad over this. His daughter and one son plan to drug him to get him to the nursing home. I cannot support this. I don’t think his daughter has guardianship at this point. I am not sure what to do but know this should be stopped. His daughter has all the cards and doesn’t care what he wants.
What should I do?