My husband, age 65 this January, is a disabled Veteran and 17 years my senior. It is very obvious to me that something is very wrong and worsening over the past few years. He has many doctors but becomes angry with them after a visit or two then he never goes back. I am trying to care for him, as well as caring for my 25 year old son with autism. My husband, Michael is disappearing mentally right before my eyes and even puts my family in danger with his hostility. Where do I turn...? What do I do? I am all that the two of them have...and I'm failing. Someone help us.