(would have been 60 years this month). Last year we buried mom 3 days before their wedding anniversary so it was all still fresh. It was told that it was their 60th but dad and I (only) know it was the 59th (a cover up due to my brothers arrival 60 years ago). So now how do I handle it, I don't think I did well with the 1 year anniversary, Dad was very sad as was I and I was caught up in my own grief. Do I recognize the day, what do I do? I had flowers sent to moms grave for dad and had a photo of them so he could see (we are not geographically close to where mom is buried). I was a bit peeved as no one else recognized the date (sister or brother) with flowers (my brother lives 2 miles away from the grave). I am trying to live in the present and not dwell and have dad live in the present (hes doing OK). Just not sure how to handle this event. Their anniversary was always important to them, mom left a card for dad before she died so that hit him hard when he found it.