Here goes, I am at my wits end. My mother is 72 and fairly good health. I tried to help her and my father in anything they needed help with but it was just never enough. What I get is guilt trips if I don't rearrange my schedule to accommodate hers. She tells me she has breast cancer then the following week she doesn't she has every ailment that someone else has but of course much worse. She doesn't like anybody. She won't let nurses in the house to care for my father she needs to be in everyones business and then has something bad to say about everyone. She dislikes my friends. She goes to the Drs and everytime she comes out she can't stand the Dr she can't stand her Psychiatrist She was asked not to come back to a hospital that she was in because of how she treated the Drs and Nurses and when I try to reason with her as to how we can get her help with the way she feels she says I have the problem not her. Then I take time away which she hates and she lets me know it but I do it anyways with total guilt because she makes sure that she tells me I don't care for her or my father. So I just don't know how to handle this. Thereis so much more. Any suggestions ?