It seems whenever she has a captive audience she will complain about something in regards to my husband or I. In the beginning we were able to overlook what she said, but they are becoming more and more frequent and sometimes hurtful. At 95 her vocabulary has become quite limited, but she sure can spew out something about us! We have been sharing our home with her for 3 years now and certainly want this to continue. Any suggestions how to improve this situation without offending her?