He has dementia. Dr. test says zero short term memory. He had DL suspended due to car accident in 2016. He is an alcoholic. He wants to spend $$ to repair a broken down car that belongs to my deceased brother and has $1000 owing to DMV. I have put him off and put him off. It isn't in his name. He didn't incur the $1000 and it would cost more to fix than it's worth. BUT, he wants to drive to town and get his BEER!! License or not. He put $$ from sale of property into an Irrevoc. Trust (along with his home) and made me executor a few years ago. Now he is threatening to call the police on me because I won't give him $4000 to fix a car that is only worth $2800 IF it was running. I know it's his alcoholism making these demands but still it is hard to take. Am I doing the right thing? I'm having the car towed to my niece's house this weekend hopefully to get rid of the "trigger." Then I'll have to deal with him asking where it went. Amazing how he can remember he wants it fixed but nothing else related to its title. I told him he can't get a new DL and his answer is "I'll go to another state then." I'm afraid this is just going to get worse and worse. Will he ever forget that he drinks?