My 81 yr old dad is very accommodating. He toilets himself, is mobile and dresses himself. HH Aide was to come once a week to clean his apt, remind and assist him showering, and change his bedding. He lives with me and has his own "apartment" in my home with his own entrance door. Three aides have failed us. One was a no-show half the time. One came once, dismantled my appliances, stole from me then never returned. The third was GREAT, however she was convinced it was a racist endeavor that he had his own entrance at the back of the house. She quit because I wouldn't give her a key to MY house to cut through to his apartment. The "peace of mind" they tout is non-existant. Where do I go from here?