My father is immobile, bedridden, and experiences some short term memory loss due to a brain tumor. I can no longer physically help lift him onto bedside commode without hurting myself, however he refuses a bedpan, complaining of pain and the inability to go #2 on a bedpan. He also refuses going in pull up briefs.
Paying a caregiver to be around all hours of the day just for the times when he needs to get on bedside commode is not an option. Thanks for any advice!