I spent the afternoon looking for my Mom’s purse- she hid it under the bathroom sink! He gives her meds, cooks, drives, but won’t accept home help or Meals on Wheels. Thinks he can handle it all. Mom has moderate to severe vascular dementia and he wants to drive her to FL from MI next month! He is minimizing her impairment. He is 86 and she is 87. How to get through to him that flying and shipping the car is a safer option?