He is insisting he can come home. But to be home he needs to be able to get in and out of bed, transfer in and out of wheelchair and independently go to bathroom and take care of toileting needs. He is so angry that I think he needs to go. For the past two weeks he has been refusing PT and OT. So this is where we are. He is weak. It is creating a big chasm in our 48 year marriage. BIG!